In 2023, the American Academy of Pediatrics did a review of all children weight loss treatments in America, and concluded that "in all of these studies, if the treatment is discontinued, children tend to regain weight and lose the attendant health benefits. There is limited longitudinal evidence about durability of weight change after treatment".
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What this means is that all childhood weight loss programs that exist today are just temporary fixes. In fact, 96% of children who lose weight gain it all back within the next 5 years.Â
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And I was one of those children.
The picture above is me at age 7, and age 15. I went through dozens of weight loss programs throughout my childhood, losing and regaining weight, but never succeeded at keeping the weight off. (
Read my story)Â
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This was beyond painful. The excess weight led to decades of bullying, low self-esteem, and lack of confidence in myself because I felt I couldn’t stop shoving food in my face and gaining weight. For most of my life, I couldn’t even look at myself in the mirror.
I felt hopeless.
 But I didn’t give up. I was determined to overcome my obesity, and then use everything I learned to help overweight children, so that they skip the decades of pain I went through.
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That’s why I created Step Together.Â
‍But how is Step Together different from all the programs I did as a child?
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What makes this program unique is that
the focus is primarily on parents, and not children.Â
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You see, whenever I went through a weight loss program as a child, the program would inevitably end and I’d gain all the weight back.
That’s because the root causes of my obesity were never addressed.
‍The root causes were the environment that I was raised in, the behaviors and relationship with health that my parents had unconsciously passed down to me, and the emotional stress that was hiding behind my eating disorder.
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Since none of these causes were addressed, no matter how hard I tried to “diet” and push myself to exercise, I was swimming against a strong river that was always leading me back to obesity.
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I’m here to help you avoid this vicious cycle for your child. I’m here to help you address the true reason behind your child’s excess weight.
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In doing so, we will focus on
making you the health expert of your own family, so that you lead by example, and know exactly what to do to help your child throughout their growth.Â
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In this program, you’ll learn everything I painstakingly learned in the last 20 years about the latest science of nutrition, adult and children behavior, and physical fitness that led to my successful recovery from obesity.
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But beyond that, I’m here to share with you the perspective I had as a child, and
to teach you how I wish my parents handled this complex issue so that it didn’t make my eating disorder worse, and make me feel even more shame than I already did.Â
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By working with parents, I’ve found that this is the only solution that leads to lasting change. To overcome excess weight in childhood,
children need a strong role model that is there for them 24/7. Someone who has mastered their own health and psychology, and can be the strong river that naturally guides them towards health.Â
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And as much as I’d love to do that for your children, I can’t have as much influence on their life as you can.
The change has to start with you.
‍Again, I’m beyond grateful that you’re embarking on this journey with me. Nothing makes me happier than seeing children regain their health, and the fact that you’re deciding to help your child means the world to me. I will not let you down.
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Now, let’s go into how this program works.